When you feel you're not good enough...

you may also be in a slump. It's one of the most atrocious kind of self-doubt you may ever experience.

Come to think of it, people who exude the greatest self-confidence might just be the most insecure person you have ever known.

It's both a blessing and a curse.

Thinking that you're not good enough will make you strive to be better. But it would also unleash an entire spectrum of insecurities.

It can even be a double whammy. When you feel that you're not good enough for someone, you work hard to deserve the person.

But when the time comes that you know you already accomplished your mission, you ask yourself - is the person still good enough
for you?

There goes another vicious cycle.