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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

A relationship lesson

After a lot of heartaches and several unsuccessful relationships, I realized something today. 

Moral lesson of the story: 

Never again will I be in a relationship that does not put me in one of the top priorities. 

I undervalued myself. It hit me and oh, did it hit me hard. 

Why do power women tend to value themselves less? Yep - guilty as charged. 

I will never be second fiddle to anyone's career. After all, everyone builds their careers from ground up. But for what? Shouldn't personal relationships be the reason for that? 

I will never be in a relationship where I will not be introduced to parents and friends. 

I am a good person --- in heart and in mind. I deserve the star status in someone's life.

In fairness to me - in my own insy tinsy way - I made the world a better place. 

I will never allow anyone to make me feel otherwise.   

I will never be with someone who is not proud of me. 

Today, I just had one of the best epiphanies in my life. 

I am someone worth something. 

Never again will I underestimate myself and my worth in a personal relationship. 

I would rather be by myself than feel undervalued again. EVER. 

Universe, is this what all of this is about? 

It was a lesson learned very well.

Now, can you give me and my girlfriends that someone we all truly deserve?      

1 comment:

  1. "Now, can you give me and my girlfriends that someone we all truly deserve?"

    --> amen! sana pwede soon? hehehehe!

    and yes mother, thou shall not undervalue yourself for the sake of a man you love. if you do, you will never be happy.

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